Have you ever shared your problem or issue to a 3rd party, then getting a clearer picture of the whole situation? Why is that? I guess when we are in a situation, we tend to read the situation through our own glasses, not from both parties’. That is why our view is a bit bias in that sense. The 3rd party normally would look at both sides ~~ so they could see a bigger picture.
Imagine if in our life we could see a bigger picture for ourselves, guess we would be more objective and have less conflict with others.
But sometimes communication and understanding are really crucial to help us see the bigger picture. If we are less tolerate it is hard to understand the position of others.
Lately I’ve been too absorbed in myself, I was trying too hard to understand myself — of what I’m feeling, etc. But because of that, I forgot that I interacted with others, and subconsciously have neglected their feelings. Then I realised that I won’t gain anything from trying too hard on self-discovery. I should have been on the Middle Path — not the extreme. Having known that I feel a surge of freedom and release. 
